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My girlfriend is too fat (00000304)
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I have a big problem; for a long time now I haven't found my girlfriend sexually attractive. Since we met many years ago, she has put on more and more weight. The girl of around 10 stone (140-ish pounds) is ancient history – nowadays she could reach a hefty 14 stone (200lbs). She is aware of it and constantly says she thinks she is too fat – but she doesn't see the implications. I do – and it is extreme. So much so that I now am never in the mood for sex, which for me is a very bad sign. Actually that isn't quite right: I do want to have sex. Just not with her. The problem is I look after my body and my appearance. I go to the gym, don't have an awful fashion sense and I am also pretty well off financially. In other words, I believe that I just need to not hide, and when I am completely honest for a moment (because this is Sinr after all), I deserve better. By that I don't mean skin-and-bone models who break just by looking at them, but just a well proportioned body. By the way, I don't care if women have a bit of a belly. The main thing is that if the overall view is good. Basically I need a woman who is sexy. Before you swing your "how can someone be so superficial" bat at me, or tell me that it is what's inside that counts – which by the way is complete bullshit – here is the explanation of why I haven't left her: she is the most wonderful human being that I have ever met. Never has anyone touched my heart as much as she does. Every day. And for that reason I can't and I don't want to go. And it is this conflict that is really tearing me apart. So I'm dancing on a minefield. And no, I am not interested in getting sex elsewhere. I have never cheated in my life and I am definitely not starting now.

Posted on 06.03.2013, 18:15:13 CET

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Comment from 28/05/2013, 11:09:43 CET []:
It really wouldn't matter if your partner is plus size,I guess the only thing that's important is, whenever you wake up, and by the end of the day, you'd find yourself happy.
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