My mom's ex liked to take me to hospital appointments and make us dinner. He appeared considerate, but I wanted to see just how considerate he actually was. He sped around corners and gave me neck cramps for 1 hour drive each time I got a ride from him. When he cooked, he didn't check to see if the food was expired, nor clean out the fridge and cupboard when food expired so we frequently got food poisoning. I had enough. One day he left his dishes in the sink. So did I. He left his clothes in the washer and dryer. So did I. When I was told by my mom's ex in front of her that I was being a leech, I did stuff for my mom all the time any time she asked. This infuriated her ex cause I just made a liar out of him. When he confronted me in private I told him he had no bearing on my life and I didn't owe him anything. He got so up-in my face when he got drunk, he actually told me to get out of his face. I stood my ground infuriating him further till he threatened my life just to get me to leave the room. I told my mom this, and made it very clear how serious I was about that. Even though I couldn't care less cause he was a wuss that never did what he said. Finally, after mom and I had moved out without him, he came looking for mom late at night. She had gone to the landlord's mom's place for dinner cause she was invited by the landlord's mom. I told mom's ex, "she is out with "landlord's name". He assumed she was dating behind his back, made a scene, caused a ruckus, embarrassed mom and the landlord which finally resulted in him being banned from the property for trespassing. Now this man is in rehab for drinking issues. So that's why I tell people that get on my nerves, "don't mess with me or I'll copy you."
Posted on 16.09.2012, 13:23:50 CET
Place: Portland, Oregon